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Which Battle?

I’ve discovered that many people participate in competitions for different reasons. Not everyone is competing for the same prize. Some were willing to settle with making it to certain stages of the tournament. I think it is sad that while all could aspire to win the main prize, some were only glad to settle for what I think was the lesser. However diverse, every team that that competes has some [ultimate] goal in mind. Every effort in preparation and in actual games was centered on an ultimate goal of sort. The prize is why teams [should] compete.

Goals give purpose to effort. Imagine an athlete setting out on a race with no end or finish line! It would be wasted effort, energy and time. Without clear objectives it is easy to waste and even abuse resources. Goals can help us measure or place value on our efforts as we review our advance toward them against time. Clear goals also help us in determining what resources are required and or how to apportion them.

Clear goals will dictate to us what our focus should be. There are many ‘battles’ that will seek our attention and one of the keys to our effectiveness is in choosing our ‘battles’ wisely.

Don’t fight a battle if you don’t gain anything by winning – Erwin Rommel

It would be of great benefit for us to consider the ‘battles’ we’re engaged in at the moment and the potential results of our engagements and whether they are worthwhile. I think now would be a good time us to give thought to what we are going to give of ourselves and resources AND why.

I don’t run without a goal. And I don’t box by beating my fists in the air – Apostle Paul

Are your pursuits clear? Are they worthwhile?

Worship?

Be careful when you worship God that you do not worship the worship, but that you worship God Himself

How People Stop Caring About What Matters

For everything you care about you have an expression. You express how you care about your spouse by providing and being there for them. You express your love by serving your family. You express the value you place on a cause by the sacrifices you make for it. The value of what we place on something is in the time, energy & resources we devote to it. Sometimes we lose the sense of the value of some things not because they have lost value but that the way we look at them has changed. It is not difficult to stop caring about things that matter… How you stop caring about things that matter:

Sometimes we lose the sense of the value of some things not because they have lost value but that the way we look at them has changed

  • People stop caring about things that matter when they do not guard their value or worth. This can apply to certain aspects of your organization or relationships with people. What you are not intentional to protect can be easily destroyed.
  • We stop caring about what’s important when we start seeing the expression of the importance of something as a chore & not a privilege. It is a privilege to love & serve your spouse & family. It is a privilege to be part of something greater than yourself. It is a privilege you have the resources to make a difference in other people’s lives. You not only need to guard (defend) the value of something but need to constantly seek ways of constantly and creatively expressing the worth of something. It can be a relationship… or the values of your organization…
  • You stop caring about the important when you take it for granted. You take your work for granted when you start thinking it is your right for your employer or boss to give you the position & the reward it comes with it and not a privilege. Leaders, consider it a privilege that people choose to follow you and the cause you serve.
  • In the context of relationships and teams, you can stop caring about some people or some things by only seeing value in monetary terms. There are some things that are way more valuable than the money we spend on them. It could be a family trip or a team building get away. You will realize the real value of many things when you stop looking at them only through the lens of your bank balance! There are many times you need to look at money as a mere means of adding value of a different kind. A less paying job affording you to invest good time with your children matters more than a high paying one that will not afford you the same. It is important for organizations to stay out of the red but if the only value your organization guards is the bank balance, your organization does not have long to live.
  • People stop caring about things that matter when they become selfish. This is how many collaboration and even marriages fall apart: when one party cares for and lives only for themselves. People stop caring about things or people that matter when they make themselves more important than another. When they care more for their own feelings than those of others… when only their agenda exits and no one else’s.
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illustration by Valerie Everett, flickr (cc)

What are some of the other things that make people or made you stop caring about something?

Navigating The Problems Maze

Problems are one of those things you are never going to completely avoid. They vary. Some are worthy of your attention, some are not. To manage your time and other resources well, you must decide which problems are worth your attention. Decide before they arise. Take a problem inventory; in retrospect, what have you experienced as a leader and organization? Which of your problems are recurring? How many of them need your attention as the leader? How many of them need to be delegated? Some problems can be solved once and for all time by putting in place clear systems. It is folly to keep watch for fires that you know are going to start instead of dealing with their source.

Crisis is often a result of our reactions and not the problems per se

How you look at the problem will determine your ability to solve it. The attention you give to problems is what determines the extent to which they will be magnified: greater or smaller. It’s your call! There are times when the problems we face are not really much of an issue. The way they actually become serious problems is because we make them that way. Crisis is often a result of our reactions and not the problems per se. Some problems may require urgent but not immediate attention. Effective problem solvers are comfortable with parking some problems to deal with ones worthy of attention. Parking a problem for a moment may also be necessary for getting a good perspective. Complications arise when you react to a perceived problem without first understanding it.

Be careful not to react out of the frustration or fear your team expresses when they encounter a problem. You cannot effectively lead your team out of challenges if you get caught up in the same anxiety as them. Keep in mind you lead yourself before you lead your team. How you lead yourself directly affects your team or organization. In fact, there will be many times you have to lead yourself out of frustration and helplessness before you can lead your team. Problems will appear solvable to your team when they hear you and see you act that way. Your team gets their cue on how to respond to challenges from you. Panic and they will too. Be honest and vulnerable, but do so with conviction you will not only survive but thrive beyond the problem and they will too.

illustration by joncandy, flickr (cc)

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What are some of the things that leaders need to take into account, in relation to their team, when they encounter problems?

What Giving Responsibility Can Do

Last week I reflected on a period of about 5 weeks I allowed the team to take lead in areas I normally lead. During that period I was there as an observer and for (moral) support and allowed the team to call all the shots. OK, OK I was also there for quality control purposes. There! It’s out! I was also there for quality control purposes. Come on, I’m a leader concerned about our quality and standards… In fact, if you’re leader, I hereby give you permission to snoop! Yeah, snoop… “Quality control presence”  is just a sophisticated way of stating and justifying impromptu leader’s appearance / presence! I think this is something that should be inherent with every leader. As the leader you are the quality control watchmen. How have you been doing as the quality control in your team or organization? Do you have any set standards and clearly communicated expectations?

In retrospect I saw what giving more responsibilities to my team had yielded. There has been a consistent and significant growth. Giving responsibility has upped the confidence in the leadership of the individual members of my team. When you give a team member greater responsibility, it is also an expression of your confidence in them. With greater confidence your team members will  be more willing to chase greater goals. Thus, this enhances the performance and ‘delivery’ of your team. I’ll be honest and say there are times I have assigned responsibilities with some reservation and most of the times I got pleasant shock! Those you lead need to be affirmed not only in words, gifts etc but by being given greater responsibility.

Greater responsibility for some of my team members has also paved way for innovation. One of the guys was a given a job to do that I normally do. Because it is something that he didn’t do as often as I did it gave him freedom to approach the task assigned with a different approach from me. Not only did he do things differently but brought about a much appreciated “freshness” to an activity that we did regularly.When you want to “spice” things up engage a different head, voice and face.

Relinquishing some of my responsibilities also helped the team realize the demands of leadership at a level higher than what they were accustomed to. Some of my team got a more realistic insight into the cost of leadership and what it would  take for them to occupy the seat I do. When you see someone with the desire to lead this is a good way to give them a glimpse of what leadership at your level looks like. Give them some of your responsibility and use that as an opportunity to give them a picture of what you’re trying to accomplish. Share your heart and give a deeper insight of why you do some of the things you do.

Because we’re all not the same, we communicate things differently. Clarity was another way giving responsibility enriched my team and those we serve. When you have someone on your team that totally understands the vision and what you are trying to achieve, give them the freedom to express the vision in their own way. Some of the people may better understand one of your leadership team members better than you. Why not allow them to communicate vision so you can get through to those you, as the senior leader have not been able to effectively reach. The truth is even though you are the leader, not everybody you serve understands you the same. Someone on your leadership may speak the language of the guy in the “pew” better than you! If you are always the one communicating, people may get to a point of just “switching off”. Don’t forget that a great part of your job as the leader is not to “evangelize” everyone but more to “evangelize evangelists” who will reach everyone.

Try not to interfere too much and see what those you give responsibilities will do. Whatever the outcomes, there will be something to learn for you and or your team. Like parenting, one of the goals of leadership is equipping people for greater responsibilities. What better way is there for helping people embrace responsibility than by giving responsibility. Allow your leadership to be an enabling one, by equipping those you lead through giving responsibility.

Your thoughts?

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